life? Is It Complicated?

Attachment

How do I not get attached to somebody or something when they have become everything?

Go a little more firmly into your attachment till nothing of you remains. If you try to detach yourself, you will only damage yourself because the very fact that you are attached right now means that attachment is your way. If the extension is your way, get connected. If you take two substances and attach them, if the attachment Is total or complete, you cannot differentiate one from the other. Only if the attachment is not total, you can see the two parts separately. Once you cannot tell the difference, there is no problem.

Is falling in love or being in love with a person the same thing?

Love is essential devotion. but normally if we have to distinguish between the two, we can say love still has conditions attached to it.

Love vs Devotion

Whatever your expectations are, only if those things are fulfilled, your love affair will continue. Whereas devotion is not like that it is unconditional. That is the beauty of it. Love also genuinely becomes a fulfilling and life-nurturing process for any human being only if it is unconditional. The moment it becomes conditional, it becomes a transaction. Love and devotion are not two different things, but still, in our life, we generally separate them because one is supposed to be towards a higher purpose and the other is supposed to fulfil the day-to-day needs. But I would say there is no need to separate these two. Love is devotion and devotion is love. Without love, how can somebody be devout? You don't become a devotee just because you have subscribed to a certain religion, creed or whatever. A devotee cannot subscribe himself/herself to anything- he/she is just drawn to it.

Friendship

What is the meaning of Friendship?

You are always making friends with those who support your way of thinking, feeling,

understanding, liking, and disliking. All you are seeking is some supporting substance for whatever nonsense you made out of yourself. Whoever pulls you out of shit need not necessarily be your friend. And above all, when you are in a heap of shit, learn to keep your mouth shut. A true friend is someone who dares to tell you what shit you are, and still be loving and nice to you-that is friendship. Be a little courageous in your friendship. Be ready to lose them, it is okay. At least if you care, you must do what is good for others, not for yourself. Remember a friend is another confused human being like you. A friend does not mean he is a perfect human being. It is just when two people are relaxed enough to at least approach each other sincerely, then they become friends. Your friend is much of a mess as you are, but if two people be in an atmosphere sincerely with each other, he/she becomes your friend.

Expectations vs. Reality Trap

The Expectations vs. Reality Trap

Expectations refer to your beliefs about the outcome of events. While these expectations can play an important role in determining what happens and contribute to goal-oriented behaviour, they can also lead to disappointment when reality doesn't match what you hope will happen. Some common signs that you might have expectations include: expecting a certain outcome having a vision in your head of how things are going to turn out having a fixed idea of ​​what you want or need.

How to manage my expectations in a relationship?

It is important to be aware of your expectations to manage them. Start by being honest with yourself about what you expect from the relationship. Then communicate your expectations to your partner. Discussing what you both want is important and gives you a place to start negotiating and compromising on expectations. Finally, remember to be flexible and willing to adapt as your relationship (and your expectations) evolve.

Complexity of Emotions

Complexity of Emotions

Emotions are reactions to stimuli, but feelings are what we experience as a result of emotions. Feelings are influenced by our perception of the situation, which is why the same emotion can trigger different feelings among people experiencing it. Take the example of disagreeing with your friend. You might both walk away from the conversation having experienced the emotion of anger. Your anger might feel like frustration because you feel that your friend never listens to you when you speak. Your friend's anger, on the other hand, might feel like jealousy because they feel you know much more about the topic than they do. Both of you have the same emotion, but your feelings are different based on your separate interpretations. A mood can be described as a temporary emotional state. Sometimes moods are caused by clear reasons—you might feel everything is going your way this week, so you're in a happy mood. But in many cases, it can be difficult to identify the specific cause of a mood. For example, you might find yourself feeling gloomy for several days without any clear, identifiable reason.

After reading my entire blog I'm sure you do experience all this on daily basis but what are we doing about it is the real question and how are we going to go about it is going to be a real struggle. To practice, all of these takes a lot of acceptance and willingness. Till today even I'm able to practice these but in my subconscious head I know about it I just let other things overpower my learning.

Do you have the courage to let these learning make a difference in your life?

Is it relatable???

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• MAYBE